I haven’t blogged in a while and for some weird reason, I was missing it today…
So, here goes.
We all heard about Taylor Swift’s most recent break up and I’m pretty sure alot of people were as irked out as I was.
I’m a huge fan of her music….. She writes amazing real music but her love life is a mess.
Here’s what I think; behind that beautiful, innocent face, there’s a terribly insecure young woman. A woman that is probably scared of being alone and by herself.
That is the only logical explanation.
I know alot of people don’t like being alone, it can get boring and all but sometimes, being alone is not such a bad idea. Sometimes, we need to be by ourselves.
I was single for 3 years, not because I couldn’t find someone, cos trust me, I can have whoever I want. I’ve never had to deal with that kinda stuff. I was single because I chose to be. Those were the best 3 years of my life.
Not because everyday was rosy and peachy, its because I grew up so much in those three years. I learnt so much about myself, I figured alot of things out, I figured out the kind of woman I want to be, the kind of person I want to be with, I had time to do me and not give a crap about anybody else’s opinion.
I was extremely happy. I was never bored, even when I didn’t have stuff to do, which was almost never, I was still happy. It was good to know that I could be happy and totally cool by myself.
I understand that you want to always have someone to be silly with, someone to cuddle with at night, but you also need to be able to be happy by yourself.
If you can’t be happy by yourself, you can’t be truly happy with anyone else.
Spend time alone, don’t let your happiness depend on anyone else. Love yourself enough to be awesome by yourself.